The Effects of Domestic Violence on Children
Children see, hear, and observe everything that happens in their environment. Therefore, children are always affected by violence in the home, whether they witness it or experience it themselves. Just like adult victims and survivors, children who experience or witness violence or abuse can respond in many different ways. A child's reaction to abuse depends on age, extent of abuse, support the child has received from others and their relationship to the abuser. As a parent, you can support your child by listening and validating their experiences.
Some common reactions for children experiencing or witnessing violence include:
- Changes in eating and sleeping
- Behavioral changes
- Regressing to past behaviors such as bed wetting or thumb sucking Social and academic changes
- Loss of interest in peers, school, and activities
Supporting your child
Some things you can do to support your child:
- Reassure them that what happened was not their fault
- Maintain a routine at home and school
- Promote healing through music, art, journaling, and therapy
- Encourage your child to engage in activities that they enjoy
- Let the child lead conversations and do not force conversations or ask too many questions
- Allow your child to ask questions and freely talk about their experience – keep these conversations to age appropriate levels
How CADA Can Help
CADA has advocates trained specifically to work with children and families. Advocates can help parents to better understand the impacts of violence and abuse and offer strategies and support in connecting with children. To learn more about how CADA advocates can assist children and families, please call and ask to speak with a Child and Family Advocate.
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